| Many 
                    Americans view a healthy lifestyle as something difficult 
                    to attain--and something that's not much fun. Traditional 
                    diets have taught us that to lose weight, we must count calories, 
                    keep track of everything we eat, and deprive ourselves by 
                    limiting the amount--and kinds--of foods we eat. Diets tell 
                    us exactly what and how much food to eat, regardless of our 
                    preferences and individual relationships with hunger and satiety. 
                    
                   Dieting 
                    can help us lose weight (fat, muscle, and water) in the short 
                    term but is so unnatural and so unrealistic that it can never 
                    become a lifestyle that we can live with, let alone enjoy! 
                    
                   While 
                    very few diets teach healthy low-fat shopping, cooking, and 
                    dining-out strategies, many offer unrealistic recommendations 
                    and encourage health-threatening restrictions. Even more important, 
                    diets don't teach us the safest, most effective ways to exercise; 
                    they don't teach us how to deal with our cravings and our 
                    desires, or how to attend to our feelings of hunger and fullness. 
                    Eventually, we become tired of the complexity, the hunger, 
                    the lack of flavor, the lack of flexibility, the lack of energy, 
                    and the feeling of deprivation. We quit our diets and gain 
                    back the weight we've lost; sometimes we gain even more! 
                   Each 
                    time we go on another diet of deprivation, the weight becomes 
                    more difficult to lose, and we become even more frustrated 
                    and discouraged. Then we eat more and exercise less, causing 
                    ourselves more frustration, discouragement, depression. Soon 
                    we are in a vicious cycle. We begin to ask ourselves,"Why 
                    bother?" We begin to blame ourselves for having no will power 
                    when what we really need is clear, scientifically-based information 
                    that will help us develop a healthier lifestyle we can live 
                    with for the rest of our lives. 
                   Deliberate 
                    restriction of food intake in order to lose weight or to prevent 
                    weight gain, known as dieting, is the path that millions of 
                    people all over the world are taking in order to reach a desired 
                    body weight or appearance. Preoccupation with body shape, 
                    size, and weight creates an unhealthy lifestyle of emotional 
                    and physical deprivation. Diets take control away from us. 
                    
                   Many 
                    of us who diet get caught in a "yo-yo" cycle that begins with 
                    low self-acceptance and results in structured eating and living 
                    because we lack trust in our body and are unwilling to listen 
                    and adhere to our body's signals of hunger and fullness. On 
                    diets, we distrust and ignore internal signs of appetite, 
                    hunger, and our need to be physically and psychologically 
                    satisfied. Instead, we depend on diet plans, measured portions, 
                    and a prescribed frequency for eating. 
                   As 
                    a result, many of us have lost the ability to eat in response 
                    to our physical needs; we experience feelings of deprivation, 
                    then binge, and finally terminate our "health" program. This 
                    in turn leads to guilt, defeat, weight gain, low self-esteem, 
                    and then we're back to the beginning of the yo-yo diet cycle. 
                    Rather than making us feel better about ourselves, diets set 
                    us up for failure and erode our self-esteem. 
                   The 
                    attitudes and practices acquired through years of dieting 
                    are likely to result in a body weight and size obsession, 
                    low self-esteem, poor nutrition and excessive or inadequate 
                    exercise. Weight loss from following a rigid diet is usually 
                    temporary. Most diets are too drastic to maintain; they are 
                    unrealistic and unpleasant; they are physically and emotionally 
                    stressful. And most of us just resume our old eating and activity 
                    patterns. Diets control us; we are not in control. People 
                    who try to live by diet lists and rules learn little or nothing 
                    about proper nutrition and how to enjoy their meals, physical 
                    activity, and a healthy lifestyle. No one can realistically 
                    live in the diet mode for the rest of their life, depriving 
                    themselves of the true pleasures of healthy eating and activity. 
                    
                   We 
                    Don't Fail Diets; They Fail Us!Decades of research have shown that diets, both self initiated 
                    and professionally-led, are ineffective at producing long-term 
                    health and weight loss (or weight control). When your diet 
                    fails to keep the weight off, you may say to yourself, "If 
                    only I didn't love food so much . . . If I could just exercise 
                    more often . . . If I just had more will power." The problem 
                    is not personal weakness or lack of will power. Only 5 percent 
                    of people who go on diets are successful. Please understand 
                    that we are not failing diets; diets are failing us.
 The 
                    reason 95 percent of all traditional diets fail is simple. 
                    When you go on a low-calorie diet, your body thinks you are 
                    starving; it actually becomes more efficient at storing fat 
                    by slowing down your metabolism. When you stop this unrealistic 
                    eating plan, your metabolism is still so slow and inefficient 
                    that you gain the weight back even faster, even though you 
                    may still be eating less than you were before you went on 
                    the diet. 
                   In 
                    addition, low-calorie diets cause you to lose both muscle 
                    and fat in equal amounts. However, when you eventually gain 
                    back the weight, it is all fat and not muscle, causing your 
                    metabolism to slow down even more. Now you have extra weight, 
                    a less healthy body composition, and a less attractive physique. 
                    
                   Diets 
                    require you to sacrifice by being hungry; they don't allow 
                    you to enjoy the foods you love. This does not teach you habits 
                    which you can maintain after the diet is over. Most diet programs 
                    force you to lower your caloric intake to dangerously low 
                    levels. The common theory is that if you eat fewer calories 
                    than you burn, you will lose weight. But when you eat fewer 
                    calories than your body needs to maintain its life-sustaining 
                    activities, you're actually losing muscle in addition to fat. 
                    Your body breaks down its own muscles to provide the needed 
                    energy for survival. 
                   Traditional 
                    diets which use calorie restriction to produce weight loss 
                    are no longer appropriate. Most weight-loss programs measure 
                    success solely in terms of the number of pounds lost per weight 
                    loss attempt. Diets don't take into account the quality of 
                    the process used to achieve that weight loss or the very small 
                    likelihood of sustained weight loss. For long-term good health, 
                    you need to move away from low-calorie diets and focus on 
                    enjoyable physical activity and good nutrition. Exercising 
                    regularly and eating lean-supporting calories, protein and 
                    carbohydrates, and reducing fat-supporting calories will not 
                    only help you look and feel better, it will also significantly 
                    reduce your risk of disease. 
                   America 
                    spends billions of dollars on different ways to fix people. 
                    If we focused more on prevention and on improving our day-to-day 
                    behaviors, we could cut health care costs in half. Contrary 
                    to popular belief, leading a healthy lifestyle doesn't have 
                    to be difficult; it doesn't have to painful or time-consuming. 
                    Making gradual, simple changes in your diet and physical activity 
                    will make great improvements in your health and well-being, 
                    and they can drastically reduce your risk of disease. 
                   If 
                    your weight management program is to be a success, everything 
                    you eat and every exercise you do must be a pleasurable experience. 
                    If you're not enjoying yourself, it is unlikely that you'll 
                    continue your program. It's that simple. These small, gradual 
                    changes are not painful or overwhelming but rather the core 
                    of an exciting lifestyle that you will look forward to. 
                   Take 
                    the frustration, guilt, and deprivation out of weight management, 
                    and allow yourself to adopt gradual, realistic changes into 
                    your life that will make healthy eating and physical activity 
                    a permanent pleasure. You will soon discover what your body 
                    is capable of and begin to look, act, and feel your very best. 
                    Good luck and enjoy all the wonderful benefits of a healthy, 
                    active lifestyle. 
                   source, 
                    NFPT Personal Trainer Magazine 
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